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Mari Andrew On How She Turned Her Pain Into Art And A Best-Selling Book

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Fauna Solomon On How She Beats The Breakup Blues

Kate Paguinto

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What It Feels Like When Someone Never Fully Chooses You

Anna Bashedly

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For Those Of You Who Never Got Your Closure

Anna Bashedly

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Enough Is Enough: Signs You Are In An Abusive Relationship

Rocsi Marciano

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Six Steps I Took To Make It Through Soul Shattering Heartbreak

Oliver Manalese

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Accept The Loss And Let Yourself Drown In It

Kalong Wong

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What Nine Women Would Tell Their Younger Selves After A Breakup

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There's No Such Thing As Winning A Breakup

Jaimee Estreller

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Twelve Signs You're Doing Much Better Than You Think You Are

Anna Bashedly

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When You Can't Let Them Go, But You Can't Take Them Back

Anna Bashedly

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Four Things To Know About Being A Single Young Adult In America

Kate Paguinto

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4 Reasons You Should Join A Book Club After A Breakup

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What To Do When You Doubt Whether It's Really Over

Anna Bashedly

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Love Is Like A Plant: What Are The Red Flags To Look For When You Date?

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When They Come Back to You, Please Don't Take Them Back

Anna Bashedly

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7 Ways Heartbreaks Shape You Into A Better Person

Ellen Nguyen

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Love Is Like A Plant Episode: Are You Scared Of Being Alone?

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I'm Finally Giving Myself Space to Feel

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Why You Can’t Give Up On Love

Danielle Campoamor

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When You Move On Too Quickly Without Asking "Why"

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I Finally Had The Courage To End A Relationship That Was Done

Chelsea Leigh Trescott

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Love Is Like A Plant Episode: Should You Wait For Your Soul Mate?

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A Guide to Getting Un-Stuck from Your Last Relationship

Gabrielle White

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What Is the Winning Combo for Online Dating?

Gabrielle White

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Research Shows More Millennials Are Opting Out Of Sex

Gabrielle White

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Why An Identity Crisis Post-Breakup Is A Great Thing

Gabrielle White

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How I Learned to Stop Picking the Wrong Partner

Jessica Wendroff

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How to Move Forward and Stop Living in the Past

Anna Zannides

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How I'm Dealing with Being Alone after a Long Marriage

Anna Zannides

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Why It's Not Fair to Say I Have Bad Taste in Men

Danielle Sepulveres

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Don't Blame Anyone But Your Partner for Cheating

Elizabeth Stone

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How Mindfulness Makes My Bad Days Less Painful

Anna Zannides

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What I Remember About My First Breakup

Alden Tan

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Love Is Like A Plant Episode: What You Should Know About Fighting With Your S.O.

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What Happens When You Find An Unsent Letter To Your Ex

Jessica Applegate

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5 Ways I've Learned to Break Up Better

Matthew Estes

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When Your Ex Hacks Your Account

Danielle Sepulveres

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The 5 Wake Up Calls I Got from My Breakup

Vanessa Bowen

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How I Re-Wrote My Past after My Divorce

Anna Zannides

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Adele Shares Her #1 Favorite Breakup Song

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What to Do When There Are Infinite Possibilites in Life

Brittany Barbieri

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What I Learned After Losing 225 Pounds And My Wife

Tim Bauer

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Love Is Like a Plant Episode: What To Do When It Hurts To Be Single

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Why I'm No Longer Grasping For Love

Chelsea Leigh Trescott

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How Making a Post-Breakup Bucket List Changed My Life

Joanna Jefferson

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How I Recovered after Putting All My Eggs in One Basket

Jessica Maclean

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Love Is Like a Plant Episode: How to Get Your Ex Back

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Forty Signs You're Over Your Ex

Jessica Wendroff

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Why I Wouldn't Get Rid of the Pain of Heartbreak, Even If I Could

Erin Rose Belair

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What It Feels Like to Realize You're Growing Apart

Erin Rose Belair

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Why It's OK To Still Be Affected By A Breakup Years Later

Jessica Wendroff

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Love Is Like A Plant Episode: How To Stop Being Jealous

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This Survey Predicts When You'll Get Married

Gabrielle White

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What I’ve Learned From A Year Of Being Single

Connor Doherty

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How My Breakup Helped Me Realize I'm Not Broken or Inadequate

Connor Doherty

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Love Is Like A Plant Episode: What To Do When Someone Won't Commit

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How You Love Differently After Having Your Heart Broken

Ashley Duvan

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Love Is Like A Plant Episode: Why We Cheat And What to Do about It

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Love, Mapped: Do You Live in America's Divorce Belt?

Gabrielle White

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An Open Letter to the Friend Who Saw Me through My Breakup

Ashley Duvan

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Is Love Doomed Because Half Of Marriages End In Divorce?

Gabrielle White

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How It Feels When Everyone Is Getting Married and Having Babies

Andrea Lightfoot

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Love Is Like A Plant Episode: Tips for Dating And Finding Love On Appst

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Four Women Answer: "Do You Unfollow Exes on Social Media?"

Elle Huerta

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Has Swiping Culture Made Relationships Disposable?

Gabrielle White

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The Future of Love Looks Less Heterosexual According to Gen Z

Gabrielle White

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This Research Predicts When You'll Break Up

Gabrielle White

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Twenty Three Reasons Why You Can't Go Back To Your Ex

Tamiz Ahmed

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Twelve Ways to Get Out of a Funk

Karen Okaka

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What You Should Know About Staying Friends With Your Ex

Krissy Howard

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Why Unavailable Men Are Like Unripe Avocados

Krissy Howard

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Want Your Ex Back? You Deserve a Love That's Reciprocal

Stephanie St. Claire

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Why You Shouldn't Settle, Even If It Means Being Single

Stefanie Marshall

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How Economics Applies to Dating

Gabrielle White

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Why I Broke Up With My Best Friend

Abagail Ramey

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What It Feels Like When You're Really Over Someone

Elle Huerta

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How Grief Rewired Me For Love

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Four Breakup Movies to Watch on Netflix Right Now

Krissy Howard

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Ivka Adam's Advice on Breakups, Marriage and Meditation

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What to Watch on Netflix When You're Heartbroken

Gabrielle White

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Realizing He Wasn't The One and Learning to Let Go

Sheeva Sairafi

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Yogi Caley Alyssa's Advice on Heartbreak, Divorce, and Rituals

Elle Huerta

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Poet Jessica Semaan's Advice on Tinder Heartbreak, Dating and Passion

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When to Stop Blaming Unavailable Men

Krissy Howard

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What Is the Key to a Better Breakup Recovery?

Gabrielle White

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Research Shows Why A Broken Heart Hurts

Gabrielle White

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Social Media Stalking Your Ex? Blame Your Attachment Style

Gabrielle White

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Why Reuniting with Your Ex Works (or Doesn't), According to Science

Gabrielle White

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7 Reasons to Volunteer after a Breakup

Sina Henrie

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5 Ways A Crisis Can Unlock Positive Growth

Gabrielle White

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Dear Me: A Reminder

Emily Smith

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Therapist Daniela Tempesta's Advice on Breakups, Grief and Finding the One

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Why Rebound Relationships May Not Be So Bad

Gabrielle White

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3 People Share How They Coped With Depression After A Breakup

Jessica Munoz

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How to Confront the Fear of Losing

Sheryl Paul, M.A.

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How to Uncork Your Heart: Opening Up to Move On

Sheryl Paul, M.A.

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What to Do When You're Doubting Your Relationship

Sheryl Paul, M.A.

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Your Brain In Love

Gabrielle White

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I Suddenly Understood the Work I Must Do, I Must Do Alone

Gabrielle White

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