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15 Things To Do Over The Holidays Instead Of Texting Your Ex

Looking back on your relationship with rose-colored lenses?

Ten Common Signs Of Burnout

Knowing some of the common signs can help.

4 Tips If Your Ex Reaches Out Over the Holidays

If you just went through a breakup, the holidays are bound to bring up memories of your ex.

Five Ways I'm Making It Through The Holidays Post-Breakup

A few weeks before the holiday season began, my relationship came to an end. It's been a heartbreaking yet curious experience.

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What To Do In London When You're Burned Out Or Heartbroken

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Sara Radin On Why A Relationship Isn't Everything

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What To Do In San Francisco When You're Burned Out Or Heartbroken

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How I Got Over My Breakup Abroad And How You Can Too

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Aya McMillan On Rebuilding Herself Post-Breakup

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What To Do When You're Burned Out Or Heartbroken In Los Angeles (West Side)

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Jules Miller On Enjoying The Single Life

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What To Do In Los Angeles When You're Burned Out Or Heartbroken (East Side)

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Ten Ways Travel Helps You Heal After A Breakup

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Jo Piazza On Finding Love When You Least Expect It

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Why a Marathon Is Easier Than Moving On

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Nitsa Citrine On How She Found Balance Post-Breakup

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Why Your Girlfriends Are Good for Your Health

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Joi-Marie McKenzie On Why Love Lives In The Now

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Three Ways to Shift Your Mood in Two Minutes

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Amanda Grey On Post-Breakup Healing Through Yoga

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Rebecca Louise On Self Discovery Post-Breakup

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Laura Yates On Post-Heartbreak Transformation

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Rachel Fleit On Why No Contact Is The Only Way For Her To Heal

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Five Workouts Specifically Designed for Heartbreak

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Sexologist Shan Boodram On Love Addiction

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How Exercise Helped Me Curb Negative Self Talk

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What Our Brains Do During Meditation

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How to Find the Right Therapist

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5 Reasons Why You Must Meditate After a Breakup

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An At-Home Uplifting Post-Breakup Workout To Try

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What I Learned from an Audit of My Exes

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Nine Steps to Forgive for Good from Forgiveness Expert Fred Luskin

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Why You Must Learn to Let Go

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To Everyone Who Still Talks to Their Ex

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When You Fall In Love With Someone's Potential

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Saying Goodbye To That Other Life

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How Rituals Can Help When You Don't Get Closure

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When You're Overwhelmed By Changes You Want To Make In Life

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Why Following Your Passion Is Practical

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Three Ways to Make the Post-Breakup Move Easier

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The Year of Letting My Hair Loose

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What To Try First Before A Post-Breakup Haircut

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How To Make Your Post-Breakup Move Bearable

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Rachel Lee On Learning To Be Happy Alone

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When Your Ex Wants To Get A Drink

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Five Ways to Overcome the Comparison Trap After a Breakup

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How Long Will You Hurt After A Breakup?

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Thirty Ways to Comfort a Heartbroken Friend

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The Pain of Someone Not Being Sure About You

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What to Do When Someone Doesn't Love You Enough

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The Silver Lining to Heartbreak

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When You Feel Like You Can't Make It Over The Hump

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UniqueLA Founder Sonja Rasula On Staying Friends With Exes

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Three Ways To Keep Toxic People Out Of Your Life For Good

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My Five Pillars Of Finding Love

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Don't Spend Your Life With Someone Who Doesn't Choose You

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The Pink Dress

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Poet Orion Carloto On Grief And The Healing Process

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The Four Best Breakup Movies on Netflix

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How Breakups Change As You Get Older

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Love Is Like A Plant Episode: What To Look For And What To Avoid When You're Dating

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Love Is Like A Plant Episode: What To Do When Your Partner Won't Change

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Love Is Like A Plant Episode: Why We Ghost People And What To Do If You've Been Ghosted

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Love Is Like A Plant Episode: What To Do When Someone Tells You They Don't Love You Anymore

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How I Healed My Heart After Sexual Abuse

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Nutrition Expert Danielle Levy On Healing Heartbreak In Nature

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Therapist Samantha Burns On How Pain Helped Her Find Love

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Why Your Devastating Break Up Helps You Recognize Your Patterns

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If They Don't Appreciate You By Now, They Never Will

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Lisa Linh On Finding Strength After A Breakup

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Arianna Thomopoulos' Heartbreak Inspired Her Popular Blog The Modern Day Girlfriend

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Mari Andrew On How She Turned Her Pain Into Art And A Best-Selling Book

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Fauna Solomon On How She Beats The Breakup Blues

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What It Feels Like When Someone Never Fully Chooses You

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For Those Of You Who Never Got Your Closure

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Enough Is Enough: Signs You Are In An Abusive Relationship

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Six Steps I Took To Make It Through Soul Shattering Heartbreak

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Accept The Loss And Let Yourself Drown In It

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What Nine Women Would Tell Their Younger Selves After A Breakup

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There's No Such Thing As Winning A Breakup

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Twelve Signs You're Doing Much Better Than You Think You Are

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Four Things To Know About Being A Single Young Adult In America

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When You Can't Let Them Go, But You Can't Take Them Back

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4 Reasons You Should Join A Book Club After A Breakup

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Love Is Like A Plant: What Are The Red Flags To Look For When You Date?

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What To Do When You Doubt Whether It's Really Over

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When They Come Back to You, Please Don't Take Them Back

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7 Ways Heartbreaks Shape You Into A Better Person

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Love Is Like A Plant Episode: Are You Scared Of Being Alone?

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I'm Finally Giving Myself Space to Feel

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Why You Can’t Give Up On Love

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When You Move On Too Quickly Without Asking "Why"

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I Finally Had The Courage To End A Relationship That Was Done

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Love Is Like A Plant Episode: Should You Wait For Your Soul Mate?

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A Guide to Getting Un-Stuck from Your Last Relationship

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Research Shows More Millennials Are Opting Out Of Sex

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Why An Identity Crisis Post-Breakup Is A Great Thing

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